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Open in new tab Stalking, harrassing, & threatening to kill me, but most importantly trying to abuse and further traumatize my child must stop!
I have never experienced one year of peace from George (Main Main). I have tried ignoring, hiding, speaking out, going to court, and making police reports. Finally, I came back full circle of arriving at a conclusion that going to court and making police reports are pointless. Ironically, this was the same conclusion that I had as a child: strong distrust of police officers.
George (Main Main) lies on my child and me and has consistently harassed me through my child. During the phone call on March 8, 2019, he tried with all of his power to harass and scare me into filing some type of court proceedings (click here to listen), but I didn’t. I went into hiding again because I hoped that he would stop, but he did not because he is still trying to communicate with me through my child and he has been trying to lure my child and me over his house as of May 2020. As late as July 2020, he contacted my family member, which I had to be warned to take precaution. George (Main Main) does not attempt to contact my child until it is around the time of the “rape anniversary”. George (Main Main) usually plots to do something to remind me of it, as an insurance that I won’t forget it.
I will never make another police report nor will I ask of their “assistance” because they have caused more harm than good. So, I will eventually post all past and any future evidence in hopes that this may stop him. If this doesn’t make him stop, the information can at least be used when my child and me are murdered, as I don’t trust the police officers to properly investigate: especially, since I am properly categorizing some of their “brothers” and “sisters” in blue action’s as crimes.
As you will see from the text message above, you will note that he is so brazen that he will admit to crimes in a text message. At first glance, it will appear that George (Main Main) has remorse over all of the abuse and lies, but scroll to his final response: What happened happened time to just move on from the past. These are not words from a father who is truly remorseful for causing so much trauma to his child and lying on her.
Why is George (Main Main) so carefree in admitting in text some of his abuse? Maybe because he has gotten away with it all and feels embolden to do so. George (Main Main) is trying to lure us over. I feel like the end for my child and me is approaching. These criminal officers gave this monster a license to get away with every crime inflicted upon us including killing us.
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In the court order above, you will see a very small portion of the harassment, but you will not see the court mention that he attempted to attack my child because George lied to the court and testified that my child was lying. However, you will see in the text message that George admitted that it happened and that my child should just get over all of it. His words exactly, “what happened happened time to just move on.” He is attempting to train her into accepting the abuse with an apology that is not sincere. Those are words of a socipath. If a man will try to beat his daughter, he will beat a woman. If a man will lie on his child, he will lie on anyone.
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George West, Jr’s (Main-Main) History of Abuse
The physical and sexual abuse that I experienced as a child led me to accept George’s (Main Main) apologies in the early stages of the abuse. He acknowledged that his behavior was abusive and wrong, so I forgave him. He was not my preferred choice, when I was 17 years old, but at least he apologized for assualting me when no other man had done so (this was the rational of a 17 year old who had experienced over a decade of abuse with no apologies).
George’s abuse, would progressively get worse. The physical abuse exploded when we moved in together in 2001. However, even when I escaped his house in 2007, George (Main Main) never stopped abusing me. It continued even when I was living in my own apartment and dating someone else: Explaining brusies and cuts to my boyfriend became a circus act.
George (Main Main) did the following: cut my wrist because he wanted to see how sharp the knife was, punched me in the face several times, punched me in my back, slammed me on the ground, rammed his car into mine which caused me to drive off the road, continously pulled guns on me of which some of those times my child had to beg him not to kill me, threatened to kill me, stole my money, took my phone, burned my clothes because I wouldn’t come back, hit me with his car as I was running away, choked me so many times until I would lose oxygen in my brain and pass out (this was his favorite method of abuse), trapped me in his home essentially kidnapping me, kicked me, stalked me, pushed me, threw objects at me, mutilated my gentials by biting into it and riping a hole through my labia, raped and attempted to infect me with his nasty, chronic incurable STD. Thankfully, George West, Jr. (Main Main) failed at infecting me.
When George (Main Main) raped me, his goal was to punish me by demeaning, dehumanizing, and attempting to intentionally infect me with his gential herpes (HSV II). How do I know that the purpose of the rape was to try to infect me? I was a diary for George (Main Main), as he would tell me very sick details of his personal affairs. George (Main Main) became secretly vindictive and destructive to over a dozen women, as he went on attempting to infect them. In his drunken stupor, George (Main Main) confessed to me that Jasmine*, who was his girlfriend, was a spoiled brat and he would “give her something that she wish she ain’t gonna have” referring to his genital herpes (HSV II). I pleaded with him not to do that to her, but George (Main Main) would chuckle in response and state that she was “gonna to have something to complain about”.
Afterwards, when George (Main Main) brought Jasmine’s* son over to my apartment, as he needed me to complete the balancing of the budget for his job which was required due to his job position, I felt complete guilt looking at her son and I was a little bit nervous that George (Main Main) would do something to that little boy, as he had secretly hit Keith’s (George’s friend) young daughter in the face a few months earlier because he got mad at the little girl. I was not there, but this incident is something that George (Main Main) confessed to me over the phone, which caused me to immediately get upset and tell him to never hit someone’s child again. This did make me fearful for my own child’s safety, so I put safety measures in place in case he turned violent towards our child.
Jasmine* was a very nice girl, who had a supportive father and mother. She was only trying to attend college (UofM), as she navigated being a single parent. I related the most to her, so I felt extra guilty not telling her what George (Main Main) was trying to do to her. He was trying to secretly destroy her. However, I didn’t remain completely silent: As George went on this destructive path of trying to infect people, I did vocalize to him that he was wrong for doing this (I would get punished for speaking out) and I even tried to warn one young lady but she was too brainwashed by him to believe it, so I decided that I would stay out of it and just try to convince him instead to be forth-coming and stop trying to infect them. However, George (Main Main) enjoys being vindictive and destructive, so my pleas never convinced him.
Now, George (Main Main) doesn’t have access to me anymore for that type of abuse, so he simply stalks, harasses, threatens to kill me, tried to beat my child, threatened to kill me through my child, lies continously on my child and me in court, throws his middle finger up at my child, tells my child that when I die that he doesn’t want to have anything to do with my child, threatens to slap the shit (his words) out of my child, lies to my child and says that we don’t have abide by any order (trying to lure us over), brings guns around my child repeatedly, tries to manipulate us to violate a visitation order bypassing the terms set by the court to insure my child’s safety because he doesn’t want to be in a recorded setting (his lies won’t work then), etc.
However, I think that he believes that he was a “caring” father because he didn’t like to beat me in front of my child’s face, so most of the times he would wait or drag me in an area, so he could beat me in peace. This is only the physical abuse portion; There was also mental abuse as well with his favorite manipulating tactic being guilt: If I were to do something to improve my life (it always had to subtract him from the equation), he would remind me that “I was the only one there for you”. So, like an enslaved soul, I would assimilate to his demands.
I had to be George’s secretary, contractor, roofer, attorney, dog sitter, tutor and teacher, counselor (drug, alcohol, & mental), mechanic, bookkeeper, dietitian, investor, errand runner, designer, doctor, nurse, accountant, Priest/Pastor, diary (Holder of All his secrets) and so on. Basically, he obligated me to be a tortured guardian angel. I had my own life, but George still obligated me to do everything for him. I felt like a slave. I don’t miss having to be his caretaker or anything about this infectious, abusive, alcoholic cowardly “man”.
Was I ever in love George (Main Main)? No, but I trusted him. Misplaced trust was a hard lesson that I had to learn.
As a mother, I have to set boundaries for my daughter to teach her behaviors that are not acceptable, so she will not grow up and accept abusive behaviors no matter how much the person apologies for it. These are not principles that I will ever waiver on no matter who it comes from. Not for my child!
*Note: Jasmine is not the acutal name of the young lady. I had to change her name to protect her privacy.
